avoiding that which is under 200
Is this a healthy approach? Or does actively avoiding things under 200 hinder your participation in life? -- request.
Behaviors
wallowing
Priority request: As in, wallowing in self pity or sadness. Resisting happiness by being attached to the perverse pleasure of a negative emotional state.
people pleasing
Used to gain approval from others. It can lead to self neglect, or disrespect from others -- request.
play the waiting game
"a strategy in which one or more participants withhold action temporarily in the hope of having a favorable opportunity for more effective action later" -- request.
complaining
A form of communication that expresses dissatisfaction regardless of having actually experienced the subjective feeling of dissatisfaction or not -- wikipedia.
avoiding the news in order to reduce stress
"researchers looked at how people were best able to manage feelings of anxiety and depression at the height of the pandemic, finding that one of the most effective methods was to take breaks from the barrage of bad news" --nbcnews.
donating money to charity
The power of spreading kindness with money.
spiritual escapism
Head in the clouds, nose in a spiritual book, and resisting the practical matters of human life such as the body, sex, money, relationships, or expressing your talents in the world.
burning bridges
Departing from an arrangement, relationship or situation in such a way that returning is difficult or impossible.
oversharing
Saying more than is necessary or contextually appropriate... Using social media like a personal diary and treating acquaintances as if they were a therapist --priority request.
doing something for the sake of calibration
Modifying behavior as informed by consciousness calibration.
ghosting (behavior)
Ending all digital communication with another person, often without explanation.
lawlessness
Behavior that is illegal or not controlled by laws.
manipulating others
Request: I’m noticing behaviour designed to control other people for a desire outcome. Sometimes on a small and seemingly harmless scale. And in some people this energy is compulsive and frequent. The intention can be conscious or unconscious.
going with the flow
Priority request: to take life moment to moment. It is to be as flexible, adaptable, and relaxed as possible with an emphasis on not worrying about the future or past. It is often compared to floating down a river and handling what occurs as it arises with as much ease as possible.