Behaviors

lay all one's cards on the table

To be honest with other people and to tell them one's thoughts, plans, etc., in a very open way -- request.

"read the room" vs. "set the tone"

Leadership postures. Also calibrated: "lead from behind."

identifying with a role

At this level, one is motivated to behave according to a predetermined, fixed set of rules, expectations and functions.

having sympathy for the devil

Request: or evil in general.

keeping low-calibrating hobbies (under 200)

Request: For example, playing video games is only cal. 205 as an activity and games themselves typically don't calibrate high. Should we let them be, or does it hinder our spiritual progress?

relying only on God's Will for future plans

At what LoC does this become a way of life? -- request.

turn a blind eye

To deliberately ignore something that you know is wrong -- request.

over-awareness, hyper-vigilance, and awareness focused on unreality

Negative fields focus awareness beneath the threshold of integrity, precluding openness to the Holy Spirit and the gentleness it brings to our experience of life. These forms of assuming unrealistic and unproductive "responsibilities" inflate the spiritualized ego and put us in victim mode.

"No" for the sake of "no"

Request: It is an attitude that I've been dealing most of my life and feeling I can't make any change because my body and mind are saying "no" to almost everything I could try.

inviting an argument

Request: Some people seem to make a statement that invites an argument because that's how their preferred method of thinking and coming to conclusions (through arguing).

pornography addiction

Request: Continuing use after repeated attempts and desires to quit - what is the attractor field of this?

seeking a solution but not really

Similar to wanting something but also not wanting it at the same time.

treating life like a hobby

A hobby is considered to be a regular activity that is done for enjoyment, typically during one's leisure time -- wikipedia.

quitting social media

By request.

refusing hypotheticals

A useful practice to move beyond the intellect.