“success is not for me”
Priority request: something to cancel, I guess.
Behaviors
not following your own advice
Request: Some people preach what they don't do themselves, intentionally or not. Is it within integrity or should it be avoided?
letting others be as they are
Request: ...instead of trying to change, judge, or idealize a better version of them.
refusing help (when you need it)
Request: Is "I want to do this by myself" within integrity, similar to "I want to be in charge", or is it purely a pride thing?
sending loving thoughts to people
Request: I been doing that recently and feels really warm doing so. I wanted to know if these loving thoughts really do make a difference. Especially towards those who we perceive to "hurt" us. I wonder if this is a legitimate spiritual practice?
telling others today is one's birthday
Request: Self-love or seeking attention?
healthy self-interest
Priority request: "taking care of yourself but not at the expense of others" -- psychologytoday.com
praying for the same thing over and over
Request: Is this a desire thing or maybe a pragmatic way of staying aligned with something meaningful? I usually feel better when I talk to God about it but it seems kind of compulsive at times too.
demonization
Priority request: “to portray (someone or something) as evil or as worthy of contempt or blame” — merriam-webster.com
homebody
"A person who likes spending time at home rather than going out with friends or travelling to different places" --dictionary.cambridge.org
drinking even a single glass during pregnancy can cause birth defects
Referring to an alcoholic beverage.
calling a spade a spade
While the motivation may be in the 400s—TvF has it at 490—in practice its effect applies to the material world, not to the symbols and abstractions of the intellect.
asking too many questions
Sometimes some of us just can't stop. Or is it okay? -- request.
"God won't give me what I want"
Request: What is the source of this feeling? It's like a frustration or blaming God for negative things that happened in the past...
meddling
"to interest oneself in what is not one's concern : interfere without right or propriety" -- merriam-webster.com