Self-help

not mixing work with romance (co-workers and customers)

Priority request.

How to Meet Your Self, by Nicole LePera

The Workbook for Self-Discovery. Priority request.

self-neutering (spiritually speaking)

Not literally! A decision in the crown that you aren't a sexual being because sex is an abomination.

fighting your sexual nature

Humans are sexual beings.

T/F: a calm resolution is always possible

The level of Love has impressive patience and resolution capability.

Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul

by John Eldredge. He challenges Christian men to return to what he characterizes as authentic masculinity without resorting to a "macho man" mentality -- wikipedia.

Dave Ramsey's 7 Baby Steps

Priority request: A plan to save money, pay off debt, and build wealth. Ramsey claims the plan works every time, but it requires commitment and action.

keeping a diary or journal

Also blogging for personal/spiritual growth.

The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results

Popular productivity book by Gary W. Keller, a founder of America's largest real estate company.

cutting off narcissistic parents/friends

Positive (setting boundaries) or negative (being unforgiving)? -- request.

Atomic Habits, by James Clear

An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones -- subtitle.

self-definition

A stage of growth between Courage and Trust.

negative expectations

Reifies the positionality "I knew things wouldn't work out."

positive expectations

A posture toward all of life.

gambling addiction

Priority request: Something I struggle with. Maybe people here have friends and family members who also struggle, and thus this could bring understanding to the problem.