"we have to have the courage to face our own deep wounds that cause us to bring negativity into our love connections," by Sri Prem Baba, 2018. Priority request.
Feeling Is The Secret, by Neville Goddard
Request: explores the power of our emotions and how they shape our reality. It teaches us how to use our feelings as a tool for creating the life we desire.
Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect
"While many self-help books deal with what happened to you as a child, in Running on Empty, Webb addresses the things that may not have happened for you. What goes unsaid―or what cannot be remembered― can have profound consequences that may be affecting you to this day."
books by Dr. Alice Miller
The Drama of the Gifted Child and other titles (see link). Priority request: she recommends not honouring the fourth commandment blindly, I.e. embracing recognising abuse from one's parents instead of honouring them at all costs. She says attachment to one's abusive parents is not love.
No More Mr. Nice Guy, by Robert A. Glover
"A proven plan for getting what you want in love, sex and life."
resistance to helping publicly, preference for helping in background
Request: Is it spiritual ego that believes staying anonymous when possible is "more correct"? Or is wanting acknowledgment indeed a lower intention compared to helping from behind the scenes?
Clear your Sh*t, by Dane Tomas
Request: Uses Hawkins' scale to get rid of emotional blockages. I'm skeptical if this is useful, as the author seems to emphasize on removing blockages instead of being loving and kind. He also has the extreme aim of clearing everything that's not LoC1000.
level: real attractiveness isn't about looks
"people who are perceived as more attractive are more likely to give—and givers are seen as more attractive” -- rd.com.
Deepwander
"harnesses state-of-the-art AI to meld the reflective practice of journaling with therapeutic frameworks and techniques, fostering profound self-awareness" -- deepwander.com.
"I deserve good things"
Priority request: The statement seems crucial to self esteem, as well as being able to value and enjoy life. Whether or not deservingness is constructive as a concept seems less important than the affirmation that one is fundamentally worthy of blessings, grace and forgiveness.
Making Love: Sexual Love the Divine Way, by Barry Long
Long "restores the place of romance and gives couples very practical advice on how to change their sexual behaviours so that they can realign their love for each other with the love of God" -- amazon.
The Superbeings: The Superselling Guide to Finding Your Higher Self
by John Randolph Price. "This book will demonstrate, step-by-step, how you, too, can be well--spiritually, mentally, emotional, physically and financially -- how you, too, can become one of the SUPERBEINGS" -- amazon.
prohibition of having a relationship with another spiritual teacher
Request: Wanting to hold the Doc in my mind, I am met with a kind of feeling that I "shouldn't" do it. The argument is the existence of Christ... [Still,] a Christian cannot betray Christ... just because he maintains a "different" teacher in his mind. I wonder what is behind this "prohibition".
We've Got Issues, by Phil McGraw
How You Can Stand Strong for America's Soul and Sanity (subtitle). "come home to our core values, fortify our families, and re-embrace self-determination and self-governance." Priority request.
12-step programs
Calibrated in Truth vs. Falsehood at 540. The motivation, awareness and focus is high, but what about the overall effect, all things considered?