greed
"intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth, power, or food" --google dictionary.
Qualities
self-destructive
Lower on the map than self-hatred...
wholesome
conducive to or characteristic of physical or moral well-being; sound or exhibiting soundness in body or mind -- vocabulary.com.
"keep up appearances" / for show
to pretend to be happier, less poor, etc. than you really are, because you do not want people to know how bad your situation is -- Cambridge dictionary.
opportunism
Taking advantage of opportunities without regard for the consequences for others.
tough love
Treating a person sternly or harshly with the intent to help them in the long run -- wikipedia.
betrayal
"violation of a presumptive contract, trust, or confidence that produces moral and psychological conflict" -- wikipedia.
shunning
Priority request: social control mechanism used most commonly in small tight-knit social groups to punish those who violate the most serious group rules. It is related to exile and banishment, although shunning is based on social rather than physical isolation or separation -- britannica.
unstoppable
"incapable of being stopped" -- merriam-webster.
personality
The expressed level of power at which one could be said to show personality.
sobriety
Priority request: the state of being free of the effects of drugs and alcohol.
antisocial
"contrary to the laws and customs of society; devoid of or antagonistic to sociable instincts or practices. not sociable; not wanting the company of others -- Oxford languages.
empathy
Priority request: It seems like a very significant milestone in consciousness when one stops and thinks, "How would I feel if someone did that to me?"
pessimism
a tendency to see the worst aspect of things or believe that the worst will happen; a lack of hope or confidence in the future -- Oxford Languages.
flakiness
Request: I've noticed this as a growing social trend. people baling on plans or commitments with no sincere reason.