Qualities

attention to detail

the ability to focus on a specific task and think through and attend to all the critical details surrounding it. An example of attention to detail is noting and correcting all grammatical errors and typos in an email before sending it out -- request

scorn

Contempt or disdain felt toward a person or object considered despicable or unworthy -- American Heritage Dictionary

thick-skinned

Request: "Not easily bothered by criticism or insults". Is it a positive quality?

chatty / "Chatty Cathy"

"Chatty Cathy" is an epithet used to describe a person who is talking incessantly (and annoying the people around them -- urbandictionary.com

horror

request: maybe somewhere between fear and terror?

anti-narcissism

When narcissism (cal. 140) seems to be the greatest sin and you suppress even the appearance of it.

nitpicky

Overly concerned with insignificant details. Also: characterized by petty fault-finding -- wordnik.com

chaos

A condition or place of great disorder or confusion. The US withdrawal from Afghanistan comes to mind.

cozy

"giving a feeling of comfort, warmth, and relaxation" -- Google dictionary

bad

request: what level is bad?

churchiness

strict conformity or zealous adherence to the forms or beliefs of a church -- merriam-webster.com

scrupulosity

pathological guilt or obsession associated with moral or religious issues that is often accompanied by compulsive moral or religious observance. Scrupulosity is highly distressing and maladaptive -- pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

fun

"amusing, entertaining, or enjoyable" -- Google dictionary

over-responsibility

request: taking responsibility for things you aren’t really responsible for

worthy / unworthy

the duality