charm
Priority request. "A quality that makes you like or feel attracted to someone or something" -- cambridge.dictionary.org.
Qualities
pettiness
Lack of generosity in trifling matters -- vocabulary.com.
lame excuses
No, your drunkenness was not a result of alcohol-based hand sanitizer -- rd.com.
automagically
"in a way that is automatic, without the need for human actions or control, and that seems to be magical" -- dictionary.cambridge.org.
patience
"ability to wait something out or endure something tedious, without getting riled up" -- vocabulary.com. Priority request.
well-being
"A measure of how well life is going for someone.... Often-discussed contributing factors include feelings, emotions, life satisfaction, achievement, finding meaning, interpersonal relationships, and health" -- wikipedia.
vitality
"a lively or energetic quality" -- merriam-webster.com
tranquility
An untroubled state that is free from disturbances -- vocabulary.com.
sense of humor
Sense of humor calibrates at 345 in Truth vs. Falsehood.
classy
Someone who puts a high standard on the way he behaves -- vocabulary.com.
magical thinking
"The belief that one’s ideas, thoughts, actions, words, or use of symbols can influence the course of events in the material world" -- britannica.
self-pity
Feeling sorry for yourself.
immature
Not behaving in a way that is as calm and wise as people expect from someone of your age -- Cambridge Dictionary.
mature
Having or showing characteristics, such as patience and prudence, considered typical of well-balanced adulthood -- American Heritage Dictionary.
attraction, aversion
Calibration reveals the essence of these ego proclivities.