productive
doing or achieving a lot : working hard and getting good results · producing or able to produce something especially in large amounts -- merriam-webster.
Qualities
prestige
“reputation or influence arising from success, achievement, rank, or other favorable attributes” — thefreedictionary.
compassion
"Genuine compassion must have both wisdom and lovingkindness" -- Dalai Lama.
churchiness
strict conformity or zealous adherence to the forms or beliefs of a church -- merriam-webster.
greed
"intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth, power, or food" --google dictionary.
self-destructive
Lower on the map than self-hatred...
wholesome
conducive to or characteristic of physical or moral well-being; sound or exhibiting soundness in body or mind -- vocabulary.com.
"keep up appearances" / for show
to pretend to be happier, less poor, etc. than you really are, because you do not want people to know how bad your situation is -- Cambridge dictionary.
opportunism
taking advantage of opportunities without regard for the consequences for others.
tough love
Treating a person sternly or harshly with the intent to help them in the long run -- wikipedia.
hero
Request: “a person who is admired or idealized for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities.” - Oxford languages.
betrayal
"violation of a presumptive contract, trust, or confidence that produces moral and psychological conflict" -- wikipedia.
shunning
Priority request: social control mechanism used most commonly in small tight-knit social groups to punish those who violate the most serious group rules. It is related to exile and banishment, although shunning is based on social rather than physical isolation or separation -- britannica.
boredom
The state of feeling disinterested in one's surroundings, having nothing to do, or feeling that life is dull -- Mayo Clinic.
sense of humor
The source of sense of humor calibrates at 345 in Truth vs. Falsehood. In light of reality-testing capability, however, it calibrates somewhat higher.