Request: it seems to be a common belief among people - What is it essentially? Grief? Shame? At what level its healed? Is it primarily in thymus?
fear of rejection
Request: Common concern for people.
aversion to involvement
A posture of aloofness about participating in life.
"righteous anger"
Request: Is it ever righteous? I recall Doc talking about righteous indignation. I’ve been chewing on and trying to surrender the whole identity around community scapegoat and I find layers and layers of anger and desire to punish the “perpetrators” and a seeking of “justice”.
wanting to fix oneself
Request: Curious how this calibrates since I realized that this has come to motivate part of my spiritual work and it seems to be of the spiritual ego.
level: not responding to insults or provocations
Priority request: To avoid emotional involvement on our part. (I’ve just understood it is useless to reason with certain people).
wallowing
Priority request: As in, wallowing in self pity or sadness. Resisting happiness by being attached to the perverse pleasure of a negative emotional state.
mom guilt
Request: a name given to the feelings of guilt and shame some women feel when they don’t live up to their own or others’ expectations in their role as a parent. It’s like an internal dialogue that tells you you’re failing as a caregiver.
longing for a romantic relationship
Request: Curious if this feeling... is God pushing me to be with someone or simply a posture of desire.
everything is OK
Request: What is the energy of that? How good is it against anxiety?
stress
Priority request: Doc stated in a video that the source of stress is within ourselves and not out in the world. There is no escaping stress in the world for it is self-created. Relief occurs from understanding its true cause. What is exhilarating to one person is debilitating to another.
jealousy
Emotion referring to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and envy over relative lack of possessions, status or something of great personal value -- wikipedia.
level: if you don’t respect me, I don’t have to respect you
Priority request: Not pride as motivator, but dignity?
statement: I don't belong to myself
At what level does this apply?
friend-zoning yourself
The unconscious or deliberate behavior where an individual limits their own romantic potential by acting in ways that signal they are only interested in friendship, often due to self-doubt, fear of rejection, or protective patterns -- Brave AI.