pornography addiction
Request: Continuing use after repeated attempts and desires to quit - what is the attractor field of this?
Behaviors
wallflower
Priority request. "a person who from shyness or unpopularity remains on the sidelines of a social activity (such as a dance); a shy or reserved person" -- merriam-webster.
cheating (infidelity)
"When a person in a monogamous relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. This can include breaking a promise or commitment" -- Google AI.
T/F: crossing our arms and legs affects us negatively
Request: Some people claim this is so – that it makes us closed down or something.
echo chamber
"an environment in which a person encounters only beliefs or opinions that coincide with their own, so that their existing views are reinforced and alternative ideas are not considered" -- google.
sharing Doc's work with others
Request: Someone very kind introduced me to Doc and lent me their copy of 'Letting Go'. It felt very loving but they were scared of coming across as preachy... So what is the overall effect of sharing Doc's work? I hope to introduce others to Doc too.
wolf in sheep's clothing
"an idiom from Jesus's Sermon on the Mount as narrated in the Gospel of Matthew. It warns against individuals who play a deceptive role" -- wikipedia.
spiritualized ego "white knighting"
Assumes a posture of "standing for truth" even as it a derides the morality and courage of its chosen target.
no mercy for the small-self
Sometimes accompanies "killing the ego" as a way of "spiritual progress." Also calibrated: mercy for the small-self.
cultivating an aesthetic physical appearance
Request: some view it as vain.
finding the Consciousness Calibrations Database
Request: Pretty cool that we all just sorta stumbled upon this thing! What’s the attractor field that leads to the discovery?
to stop looking for answers
Request: allowing life to unfold on its own.
"rules for thee but not for me"
A signature conceit of Marxism and radical political activism for "change." The narcissistic core of the ego assumes immunity from the rules, behavior, and consequences it imposes on others while projecting its own authoritarian posture on that which it would change.
people watching
The action or practice of spending time idly observing people in a public place —by request.
no longer believing a person once he has donned a suit and tie
"In fact, intriguingly, kinesiologic analysis commonly tells us no longer to believe an erstwhile trustworthy person once he has donned a suit and tie!" – Power vs. Force (Revised Edition), Chapter 7.