self-scrutiny
"examination of one's own thoughts and feelings" -- merriam-webster.
Behaviors
healthy self-interest
Priority request: "taking care of yourself but not at the expense of others" -- psychologytoday.
"holy anger"
Request: Does it exist, or is it an attempt to justify negativity?
accommodating the spiritual ego of others
Letting them have the "win."
giving unsolicited advice
A pastime of do-gooders and conformists.
ghosting (behavior)
Ending all digital communication with another person, often without explanation.
honest to a fault
Contextually inappropriate truth-telling that renders harm to oneself or others.
relying only on God's Will for future plans
At what LoC does this become a way of life? -- request.
swallowing your pride
To decide to do something although it will make you feel embarrassed or ashamed -- dictionary.cambridge.com.
the ability to find something wrong in anything
By request.
overthinking
"to put too much time into thinking about or analyzing (something) in a way that is more harmful than helpful" -- merriam-webster.
playing God
Suggests arrogance, misappropriation of power, or tampering with matters in which humans should not meddle -- wikipedia.
Queen Bee syndrome
These women often take on “masculine” traits and distance themselves from other women in the workplace in order to succeed. They may also view or treat subordinates more critically if they are female, and refuse to help other women rise up the ranks as a form of self-preservation -- wikipedia.
asking God to help others
Request: When you see the suffering of another person, ask God to help them. Is it good to do it or is it better to believe that God will help them anyways and not pray for them?
having a friendship with the opposite sex, which negatively affects your partner
Request: This friendship is important to you and adds value to your life, however, it is not well-received by your significant other as it negatively impacts her/him by triggering their fears and insecurities.