Behaviors

what-about-ism

"The communication intent is often to distract from the content of a topic (red herring). The goal may also be to question the justification for criticism and the legitimacy, integrity, and fairness of the critic" -- wikipedia.

know-it-all-ism

posture of "one who claims to know everything / also : one who disdains advice" -- merriam-webster.

doing something to impress others

Request: A very common behavior, conscious or not. Is it inherently negative?

reporting comments that seem nonintegrous

Request: Being judgmental? Being helpful? Not being helpful because those comments would be spotted anyway? The button is there, but should we use it just because we can?

looking for guilt in yourself or others

An unconscious behavior anathema to forgiveness and spiritual progress, it is the core of the spiritualized ego. With awareness all are innocent and simply programmed falsely, we wouldn't do it.

avoiding eye contact for spiritual protection

Request: to prevent psychic control from people with negative intentions.

war

intense armed conflict between states, governments, societies, or paramilitary groups such as mercenaries, insurgents, and militias. --wikipedia

seeing the world through rose-tinted glasses

Request: to see only the pleasant things about a situation and not notice the things that are unpleasant.

grown men wearing people's jerseys

The jerseys of famous sports players, I presume. Calibrated by request.

directing eyes to women's shapes

Request: What does consciousness say about it? Adding contexts: being in a relationship vs. not being in a relationship

wanting for others the same things you want for yourself

Priority request: I thought this might be a constructive heart alignment for those of us who are already doing pretty good with self love. By "the same things" I don't necessarily mean only physical stuff although it certainly includes that. I also mean positive emotions, connection with God, etc.

coffee badging

Requests: the practice of showing up at your physical workplace to interact with coworkers just long enough to establish that you showed up, before leaving to get your real work done from home.

keeping low-calibrating hobbies (under 200)

Request: For example, playing video games is only cal. 205 as an activity and games themselves typically don't calibrate high. Should we let them be, or does it hinder our spiritual progress?

wallowing

Priority request: As in, wallowing in self pity or sadness. Resisting happiness by being attached to the perverse pleasure of a negative emotional state.

reflecting on past mistakes

Request: Mistakes made years and even decades ago sometimes resurface in my mind, leading me to inadvertently reflect on them over and over. Is it constructive?