Behaviors

Queen Bee syndrome

These women often take on “masculine” traits and distance themselves from other women in the workplace in order to succeed. They may also view or treat subordinates more critically if they are female, and refuse to help other women rise up the ranks as a form of self-preservation -- wikipedia.

asking God to help others

Request: When you see the suffering of another person, ask God to help them. Is it good to do it or is it better to believe that God will help them anyways and not pray for them?

having a friendship with the opposite sex, which negatively affects your partner

Request: This friendship is important to you and adds value to your life, however, it is not well-received by your significant other as it negatively impacts her/him by triggering their fears and insecurities.

pornography addiction

Request: Continuing use after repeated attempts and desires to quit - what is the attractor field of this?

wallflower

Priority request. "a person who from shyness or unpopularity remains on the sidelines of a social activity (such as a dance); a shy or reserved person" -- merriam-webster.

cheating (infidelity)

"When a person in a monogamous relationship has an emotional or sexual relationship with someone else without their partner's consent. This can include breaking a promise or commitment" -- Google AI.

T/F: crossing our arms and legs affects us negatively

Request: Some people claim this is so – that it makes us closed down or something.

echo chamber

"an environment in which a person encounters only beliefs or opinions that coincide with their own, so that their existing views are reinforced and alternative ideas are not considered" -- google.

sharing Doc's work with others

Request: Someone very kind introduced me to Doc and lent me their copy of 'Letting Go'. It felt very loving but they were scared of coming across as preachy... So what is the overall effect of sharing Doc's work? I hope to introduce others to Doc too.

wolf in sheep's clothing

"an idiom from Jesus's Sermon on the Mount as narrated in the Gospel of Matthew. It warns against individuals who play a deceptive role" -- wikipedia.

spiritualized ego "white knighting"

Assumes a posture of "standing for truth" even as it a derides the morality and courage of its chosen target.

no mercy for the small-self

Sometimes accompanies "killing the ego" as a way of "spiritual progress." Also calibrated: mercy for the small-self.

cultivating an aesthetic physical appearance

Request: some view it as vain.

finding the Consciousness Calibrations Database

Request: Pretty cool that we all just sorta stumbled upon this thing! What’s the attractor field that leads to the discovery?

to stop looking for answers

Request: allowing life to unfold on its own.