rejecting being in a body
Request: I find myself not fully embracing being in a body.
Behaviors
giving unsolicited advice
A pastime of do-gooders and conformists.
relationship as an attachment
When relationships hinder spiritual growth.
taking one's self very seriously
Request: More AA wisdom: Rule 62: "Don't take yourself too damn seriously!"
staying with a partner you don’t love just to avoid being alone
Request: It seems to be quite common, especially as people get older and their options become more limited.
homicide
Request: Intentional killing of one person by another.
constantly falling in love
Request: All of the sudden, it feels like I love every girl that I take out on a date. I think Doc talked about something like this once. Where is it?
lay all one's cards on the table
To be honest with other people and to tell them one's thoughts, plans, etc., in a very open way -- request.
"read the room" vs. "set the tone"
Leadership postures. Also calibrated: "lead from behind."
identifying with a role
At this level, one is motivated to behave according to a predetermined, fixed set of rules, expectations and functions.
having sympathy for the devil
Request: or evil in general.
keeping low-calibrating hobbies (under 200)
Request: For example, playing video games is only cal. 205 as an activity and games themselves typically don't calibrate high. Should we let them be, or does it hinder our spiritual progress?
relying only on God's Will for future plans
At what LoC does this become a way of life? -- request.
turn a blind eye
To deliberately ignore something that you know is wrong -- request.
over-awareness, hyper-vigilance, and awareness focused on unreality
Negative fields focus awareness beneath the threshold of integrity, precluding openness to the Holy Spirit and the gentleness it brings to our experience of life. These forms of assuming unrealistic and unproductive "responsibilities" inflate the spiritualized ego and put us in victim mode.