Self-help

Coherence Healing

Be selective in what you watch, read, hear and listen to when it comes to taking in external information; eventually, this information will become ‘your truth’.

T/F: the spiritual ego is a source of mental illness

Request: I've seen several sources claiming that both depression and addictions have a significant element of focus toward "inner regulation". To what extent though?

“Just do it”

Nike slogan dating back to the 1980s. By request.

sense of accomplishment

Request: A sense of pride that you accomplished or finished something you set out to do. A pleasant feeling that you conquered an obstacle or reached a goal.

being discouraged over lack of likes on comments

Request: When my comments get less likes than other people's comments, I get a feeling that I must have said something wrong or stupid and feel awkward. Perhaps it is indeed so and means that a comment is outside of the normative range of the community?

binaural beats

Binaural beat therapy can’t be used in place of conventional therapy, but it could be used as a complementary strategy if discussed with a doctor. Research shows that binary beats are good for mental health as it’s linked to encouraging positive feelings -- webmd.com

breathing through a straw...

...to reduce stress and get out of fight or flight

Rational Recovery: The New Cure for Substance Addiction

Social worker Jack Trimpey’s major breakthrough in recovering from substance addiction -- amazon

feeling over-responsible to love / love as an obligation

An exploitative field that seeks to control us in name of love

being unafraid to get your feelings hurt

Is courage enough?

a problem

A situation, matter, or person that is hard to deal with or understand. A personal matter that causes one difficulty or needs to be dealt with -- American Heritage Dictionary

“being really screwed up”

If you say that someone is screwed up, you mean that they are very confused or worried, or that they have psychological problems -- collinsdictionary.com

hugs / group hug / self-hug

Average for hugs. Some are higher, some are lower than the average.

The Surrendered Wife, by Laura Doyle

"When I stopped trying to control the way John did everything and started trusting him implicitly," she confides, "I began to have the marriage I've always dreamed of."

Caroline Myss

author of 10 books and many audio recordings about mysticism and wellness. She is most well known for publishing Anatomy of the Spirit (1996) --wikipedia