having no sense of self-identity
Request: Seems like this could eventuate as significant inner turmoil.
Psychology
Gestalt psychology
A school of psychology and a theory of perception that emphasises the processing of entire patterns and configurations, and not merely individual components -- wikipedia.
delving into childhood to address current issues
Priority request: "Not all issues or types of therapy require you to delve into your childhood. However, understanding your past is often crucial to the healing process" - OpenCounseling.com.
The Power of Neuroplasticity, by Shad Helmstetter
The breakthrough scientific discovery that every thought you think rewires your brain, and changes your life -- subtitle.
"There are no more experts"
Realized in a constructive rather than skeptical way.
codependency
Priority request: Children who are raised to believe that their feelings aren't significant learn to live through other people's emotions, leading to codependent behavior... Some estimates suggest that over 90 percent of the American population demonstrates codependent behavior.
identifying with a role
At this level, one is motivated to behave according to a predetermined, fixed set of rules, expectations and functions.
time sense
"an ability to feel the lapse of time and to estimate and compare intervals especially of short duration" -- merriam-webster.
seeing that the mind is easily programmable
Level of consciousness at which it becomes apparent.
accurate perception, no projection
Perception is sensory-based, including the mind, and limited by context, which determines whether seeing is partial or holistic, i.e. parts or wholes. Accurate perception requires a context that encompasses the whole. Not projecting meaning is concomitant with accurate perception.
the mind is / is not the enemy
Defeating the mind is not a viable approach to spirituality. Love the mind, and you will see it is not the enemy.
Understand Myself personality test
Request. "Developed by a team of world-class psychologists led by Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, the Understand Myself personality report provides a multidimensional view of your beliefs and aspirations to help you thrive in an ever-changing world."
"man is responsible and must actualize the potential meaning of his life..."
Priority request: [quote from] Viktor E. Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning.
giving away your power
It can take many forms, such as holding beliefs that are not based in reality, or allowing someone else to have a negative influence over your thoughts, feelings, or behavior -- psychcentral.
occupational burnout
Symptoms characterized by "feelings of energy depletion or exhaustion; increased mental distance from one's job, or feelings of negativism or cynicism related to one's job; and reduced professional efficacy" -- wikipedia.