Instincts are ego-centric, evolutionary patterns of thought without a realistic context: the presumption is that one's happiness depends on obtaining the form of marriage and the content of its accoutrements.
raising a family
Priority request: Using this statement might bring more clarity to having kids or not.
spending time in nature
Priority request: linked to a number of physical and mental health benefits, from improving mood to reduced risk of disease. But how effective is it as a spiritual practice or with the intention to heal?
loner
Request: "a person who is or prefers to be alone, especially one who avoids the company of others" – dictionary.com.
procrastination
Why do now when you can be angry about not having enough time later?
bisexuality
Priority request: romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females.
fighting your sexual nature
Humans are sexual beings.
sexual arousal
Positive or negative? Depends on context and intention.
a man can either listen or do something else (relationships)
A man's attention operates with applied, focused awareness, and his listening occurs in a fixed context. With meaning and intention predetermined by context, his psyche is outcome-oriented, and communication is seen as a goal.
a romantic, committed relationship with the opposite sex
Request: Lately I have been aspiring this and was wondering what the field is that I'm aligning with?
gifted
"Gifted individuals often possess a unique blend of cognitive and emotional characteristics, including exceptional intellectual abilities, heightened sensitivity, and a tendency to feel different" - Google AI.
T/F: win-win is always possible
Basically, are highest good resolutions always possible?
letting "the one" find you
rather than seeking to find "the one" -- request.
effect of having and caring for a pet
Request: When I’m back home with my dogs, I always feel like it increases my LoC, in the heart, especially. My guess is that its in the ‘taking care’ aspect.