Behaviors

overtalking

To talk too much or too long about (something) --merriam-webster.

xenophobia

Dislike of anything that is perceived as being foreign or strange -- wikipedia.

exaggeration

Unreasonable or extravagant overstating or overdrawing in the representation of things -- the Century Dictionary.

rejecting being in a body

Request: I find myself not fully embracing being in a body.

relationship as an attachment

When relationships hinder spiritual growth.

taking one's self very seriously

Request: More AA wisdom: Rule 62: "Don't take yourself too damn seriously!"

staying with a partner you don’t love just to avoid being alone

Request: It seems to be quite common, especially as people get older and their options become more limited.

homicide

Request: Intentional killing of one person by another.

lay all one's cards on the table

To be honest with other people and to tell them one's thoughts, plans, etc., in a very open way -- request.

"read the room" vs. "set the tone"

Leadership postures. Also calibrated: "lead from behind."

identifying with a role

At this level, one is motivated to behave according to a predetermined, fixed set of rules, expectations and functions.

having sympathy for the devil

Request: or evil in general.

keeping low-calibrating hobbies (under 200)

Request: For example, playing video games is only cal. 205 as an activity and games themselves typically don't calibrate high. Should we let them be, or does it hinder our spiritual progress?

turn a blind eye

To deliberately ignore something that you know is wrong -- request.

over-awareness, hyper-vigilance, and awareness focused on unreality

Negative fields focus awareness beneath the threshold of integrity, precluding openness to the Holy Spirit and the gentleness it brings to our experience of life. These forms of assuming unrealistic and unproductive "responsibilities" inflate the spiritualized ego and put us in victim mode.