violence
“An act of physical force that causes or is intended to cause harm. The damage inflicted by violence may be physical, psychological, or both” — Britannica.
Behaviors
"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"
T-shirt slogan and Internet meme.
suppression of anger vs. expression of anger
Priority request: We know it’s better to let go. But in general is it better to express or suppress?
sacrificing one’s life to save another
Request: Arises from love?
suicide, suicidal ideation
Self-destructive patterns.
demonization
Priority request: “to portray (someone or something) as evil or as worthy of contempt or blame” — merriam-webster.
not moving on after someone's death
Request: Still reminiscing and feeling the need to pray for the deceased, even years after death.
giving / buying flowers for someone
If you're picking a girl up for a date from her house, and you're meeting her mother for the first time - buy the flowers for your girl -- instructables.com.
"casting pearls before swine"
"to give or offer something valuable to someone who does not understand its value" -- merriam-webster.
honest to a fault
Contextually inappropriate truth-telling that renders harm to oneself or others.
putting yourself in the aura of those who have what you want
Priority request: From Letting Go:
• Get it by “osmosis.”
• “Like goes to like.” Associate with people who are using the same or similar motivation and who have the intention to expand their consciousness and to heal.
glaze
Request: "to excessively praise someone, often to a point that it's perceived as biased or unwarranted. It's like over-the-top admiration or flattery that can come off as annoying or insincere."
running away from Love
Request: A pattern in behavior.
overtalking
To talk too much or too long about (something) --merriam-webster.
xenophobia
Dislike of anything that is perceived as being foreign or strange -- wikipedia.