Behaviors

sending loving thoughts to people

Request: I been doing that recently and feels really warm doing so. I wanted to know if these loving thoughts really do make a difference. Especially towards those who we perceive to "hurt" us. I wonder if this is a legitimate spiritual practice?

respecting and honoring the dignity of all individuals

Request: I work at a hospital with often very old and sickly people. This was recently sent out as an update to the company wide code of conduct and I like the way it is worded so I wanted to see how it calibrates. It feels similar to "kindness towards all of life in all its expressions."

friendship

The reality-testing capability to be friends with anyone. Includes the ability to keep constructive and appropriate boundaries.

backstabbing

"Betrayal (as by a verbal attack against one not present) especially by a false friend" -- merriam-webster.

accommodating the spiritual ego of others

Letting them have the "win."

suicide

a self-destructive pattern.

giving up

Request: To cease making an effort; resign oneself to failure. Seems to be the ego's idea of what surrender is.

not wanting to get up in the morning

Request: What underlies this behavior?

finding the Consciousness Calibrations Database

Request: Pretty cool that we all just sorta stumbled upon this thing! What’s the attractor field that leads to the discovery?

carrying weapons for self-defense

Request: Legal ones. Fear? Not trusting God? Or perhaps self-love?

crybaby

One who cries or complains easily or often -- merriam-webster. By request.

hiding one's weaknesses from others so they don't attack there

An underlying question is whether hiding one's weakness is deception (at 140). Request: [is this] fear or prudence?

deception

"causing someone to accept as true or valid what is false or invalid" -- merriam-webster.

fear of missing out (FOMO)

"associated with a fear of regret, which may lead to concerns that one might miss an opportunity for social interaction, a novel experience, a memorable event, profitable investment or the comfort of those you love and who love you back" -- wikipedia.

saying to somebody: you are nobody, a loser

Request: I hear that in my life, and people treat me like that.