speaking for everyone
"I think I speak for everyone when I say..."
Activities
splurge
To splurge is to indulge yourself. You can also go on a splurge if you spend a lot or act extravagantly in another way. --vocabulary.com
ring doorbell and run
played by children in many cultures. It involves knocking on the front door (or ringing the doorbell) of a victim, then running away before the door can be answered. --wikipedia
soul-searching
"examination of one's conscience especially with regard to motives and values" --merriam-webster.com
control the narrative
One of the most important tools in a narcissist’s toolbox is the ability to control the narrative... The crux of the matter is the manipulator’s desire to control the narrative and either be the hero or the victim. --psychologytoday.com
creation and destruction of sand mandalas (Tibetan Buddhist tradition)
to symbolize the Buddhist doctrinal belief in the transitory nature of material life. --wikipedia
pushing the limit
Request: "trying to do a little more than what’s allowed, without suffering consequences"
feeding another person
A form of attention and care
patronizing speech
to talk to (someone) in a way that shows that you believe you are more intelligent or better than other people --britannica.com
ghosting (behavior)
ending all digital communication with another person, often without explanation (definition at 430)
resisting thinking
An aversion to applying the mind, even when it would be a good idea to do so.
teaching someone a lesson (in the context of a perceived wrong)
punish them for something that they have done so that they do not do it again --collilnsdictionary.com
hunger strike
a method of non-violent resistance in which participants fast as an act of political protest, or to provoke a feeling of guilt in others, usually with the objective to achieve a specific goal, such as a policy change. Most hunger strikers will take liquids but not solid food. --wikipedia
"bad trip" (as on drugs)
Request: "a spiritual awakening occurred shortly after a bad trip on LSD 6 years ago. This topic is of specific interest to me for that reason."
"electricity in the air"
Request: That magical feeling in the atmosphere before party, celebration or something like that.